Kiena Dawes, a 23-year-old mother from Fleetwood, Lancashire, took her own life on July 22, 2022. The tragic incident occurred just two weeks after Kiena had reported her ex-partner for violating a restraining order. Before her death, Kiena had been struggling with the emotional and mental abuse inflicted by her ex-partner, which ultimately led to her breakdown.
A farewell letter discovered on Kiena’s phone revealed the immense pain and suffering she had endured. In the letter, Kiena accused her ex-partner of destroying her life, claiming that his abusive behavior was a significant factor in her decision to end her life. The letter also included a message to her 9-month-old daughter, apologizing for leaving her behind and expressing her regret for not being able to protect herself.
Kiena’s ex-partner had been accused of controlling behavior and abuse, and prosecutors argue that this violent treatment contributed to her tragic death. The ex-partner had been under a restraining order following allegations of physical abuse against Kiena, but he violated the order by contacting her and threatening her.
In the days leading up to her death, Kiena had made a Facebook post, which included a photo of her bandaged head and images of bruises on her arm. Her brother, Kynan, testified that the police had told Kiena to take down the post, which she had used to raise awareness about the abuse she had suffered.
Kiena had been diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD), commonly known as borderline personality disorder. The prosecution claims that Kiena’s ex-partner exploited her vulnerabilities, leading to the breakdown of her mental and emotional well-being. He is facing charges of ABH (Actual Bodily Harm), coercive control, and manslaughter. He denies all allegations. The trial is ongoing.
Kiena’s tragic story highlights the devastating consequences of domestic abuse and the importance of taking victims’ concerns seriously. If you or someone you may know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, call or text the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 for free, confidential emotional support 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
