A woman recently shared her unsettling experience on Reddit after a first date took an unexpected turn. The man had taken her to her favorite expensive restaurant, where the bill totaled over $500. Despite her initial hesitation, he insisted on paying the entire bill. However, things became uncomfortable when he grabbed her card and memorized her details, leaving her feeling uneasy and suspicious.
The woman had suggested a more casual Mexican restaurant, but the man was adamant about trying her favorite restaurant. She made it clear that the prices were steep, but he was willing to take on the expense. As they dined, they had a pleasant conversation, but the woman’s concerns began to grow when the man insisted on paying the bill.
When the server brought the separate checks, the woman placed her card on the table, intending to pay her share. However, the man quickly grabbed her card and said he would cover both checks. As he looked at her card, he commented, “Oh, now I finally know your last name.” The woman felt a surge of discomfort, suspecting that he might be trying to play mind games with her.
As a bartender, the woman was familiar with card transactions and was aware of the potential risks of someone memorizing her card details. She felt uneasy and annoyed by the man’s actions, leading her to block him after the date. She later sent him a payment for her share of the bill, reiterating that she had not forced him to take her to the expensive restaurant.
The woman’s Reddit post sparked a heated debate, with some users siding with her and others believing she was overreacting. While some thought she had every right to cut off the man, others felt that she should have paid her share of the bill before blocking him. The incident serves as a reminder to prioritize comfort and safety on first dates.
